LIFE COUNSELLING
Life Coaching? Life Mentoring? Psychotherapy?
What Is the Difference? The Million-Dollar Question!

 

Life coaching is often confused with other related fields like life mentoring or therapy. Well, I am telling you, guys, it is actually quite different.

Therapists are healing and treating - or trying to, while life coaches/mentors are helping you find your inner harmony, potential and wholeness.

Therapists are dealing with your past and releasing pain, while life coaches/mentors, as partners and companions, help you focus on your present and future.

Please note that a life coach, unlike a mentor, is not allowed to provide advice, give suggestions, customize solutions, or give you a magical cure. A life coach is a companion "Begleiter," who is helping you find your inner peace, think clearly, clarify your objective, and make the right decisions. Plus, a life coach is not a therapist, who offers medication or treatment. A life coach, however, motivates, offers emotional support, and, above all, encourages self-improvement.

To me, life coaching is a professional relationship. Mentorship or life mentoring, however, is a professional friendship. Now let me explain this, shortly and simply, by an example. BUT, hey, it is not Bible; it is just my opinion, and my take on that. I am just a normal guy with an opinion - but also experience and responsibility. So, if you disagree with me, then, by all mean, try to change my mind. And I might change it if you give me a good reason - with great pleasure. After all, life is an amazing school - we are all teachers, and we are all students, and we learn from each other.

 

Classic Example:
(Metaphorically Speaking)

Me: How may I help you?
You: Mazin, I am alone in the dark, and I want to go home. Could you please help me!
Me: With pleasure! Here is a flashlight, a map, and a compass. Good luck!
You: Thank you very much!
Me: My pleasure!
That is life coaching.

Or…

Me: How may I help you?
You: Mazin, I am alone in the dark, and I want to go home. Could you please help me!
Me: With pleasure! Here is a flashlight, a map, and a compass. Let us go together and enjoy life.
You: Great! Let us go!
That is life mentoring.

Or…

Me: How may I help you?
You: Mazin, I am alone in the dark, and I want to go home. Could you please help me!
Me: With pleasure! But before giving you a flashlight, a map or a compass, let us talk about “being alone in the dark!”
You: OK! Let us talk!
That is therapy.

It is YOUR life. Make YOUR choice!

Cheers!
Mazin Linn

 

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